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How to STOP Being a Person that NOTHING Seems to Work For -
by Bob Doyle

Do you ever wonder why great things happen to some people
but not to you?

Do you ever read about people who have tried this or that
product and had some incredible result, but when you try it,
you don't get the same result?

Have you become a person who NOTHING seems to work for?

Maybe you've thought about trying the some new self-
improvement package that sounds great, , but you're just so
tired of things not working for you.

Let's take a look at how you've gotten where you are and why
these things might happen.

First, at some point, you tried something - either based on
a recommendation, a testimonial you read, or some other
reason. Basically, you tried it based on someone else's
positive experience. However, when you tried it, you did not
get the same result so you made the assumption that it
didn't work for you. But how true IS this? Often - VERY
often - things work differently for different people, and
it's a mistake to judge your life by comparing it with
others. Perhaps you just needed more time. Maybe your
circumstances are completely different! Regardless, however,
you made up - you CREATED a Truth for yourself at that time,
that truth being "This didn't work", although remember, that
truth is based only on your surface comparison with someone
else...and it really doesn't have anything to do with you,
and what - in the cosmic scheme of things - is best for you.
Those results you read about for that other person are what
was right at that time for them, and that doesn't
necessarily mean that NOW is the time for you and that it
will happen to you the same way that it happened for them!

From then on, every thing else you try is then compared to
that first experience, with the Truth in your mind being
"Well, it didn't work that time...let's see if THIS works".
So again you're comparing...and not really trying anything
"purely" and on it's own merit without preconceived notions
or judgements. You are already working against yourself! You
may not yet automatically expect failure, but you have it as
an option, and perhaps even a probability based on your
previous experiences.

The more things you try with this mindset, the more you
fortify this mindset - it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy
that "Nothing works for me". Before you know it, that is who
you Become. The person you are about reaching your specific
goals or trying this or that product or technology is "It
works for others but never for me." Once you reach that
place, it will most certainly become true for you.

So what do you do? How do you break out of this pattern?
First, acknowledge how you got here...by comparing yourself
or your results with other people who are really on a
completely different path then you, although they may have
been after similar results. Then create a new idea for
yourself - give yourself permission to experience success on
your own terms, without judging what happens based on other
people or expectations set up by anyone other than yourself.

Once you believe that you deserve to succeed and that you
CAN succeed and that you WILL succeed, your life will
change. Whatever you try will work for you, because YOU
define what "working" is - not somebody else! You set your
own timetable, you are relaxed, and non-judgement. Your
infinite patience and lack of expectation based Externally,
will work with you in very powerful ways and you will regain
control over your destiny.

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Bob Doyle is the CEO and founder of Boundless Living and the
developer of the "Wealth Beyond Reason" program, which
provides a continuing education of the physics of wealth,
abundance, and joyous living through the Law of Attraction.
http://tinyurl.com/983mw

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